We are deeply sorry for your loss - the staff at Wilson Memorial Service
Wilson - James Malcolm “Mickey” Harris died peacefully at home on Monday, January 3, 2022, after a brief illness.
Born September 21, 1940, in Statesville, North Carolina, Mickey was the son of the late James Willard and Dorothy Nicolson Harris. He attended Statesville Senior High School where he graduated in 1958. It was at Statesville Senior High where he met his life long friend, Bill Holland. Mickey and Bill along with their wives Dixie and Carolyn, lived side-by-side for over 25 years, raising their kids, building tennis courts and a pool which served as the home-away-from-home for many kids in the West Iredell County area. Friday night post-football pizza for anyone who showed up, tennis tournaments and pool parties made the Whitney Lane dead end road the place to be. There were tragedies and heartbreak but always blanketed in love.
In 1960, Mickey married the love of his life, Dixie Alice Hoke. For sixty-one years, they built a family-oriented life with their children Anne and Brett at the center. Yet, their love expanded beyond just their kids. Everything they did was for their kids, whether it was the South Iredell Young Athletes Association to provide opportunities for kids to play football, teaching water skiing on Lake Norman, Sunday family meals, or opening their home to anyone who needed a place. Mickey and Dixie recently relocated to Wilson, North Carolina, settling in to be closer to their kids.
For over 40 years, Mickey worked for Hunt Manufacturing Company, an office products company, as a tool and design engineer. During his time at Hunt, he was the sole inventor of a paper shredder shaped to be positioned over a wastepaper basket.
Mickey was a wonderful father to Anne and Brett, a shamelessly proud grandfather to Blair, Taylor, Mack, Maggie and Drew, and a gentle great-grandfather to Harrison, Anderson, Evan and Ella. He was their hero, teacher, comedian, and on-call fix-it guy. Every grandchild learned what the heaviest thing on earth was and the ramifications of the infamous finger pull. In short, Grandpa Mickey knew everything.
Ford Thunderbirds were Mickey’s passion. He grew to love these cars when he serviced them at the Humble Oil Esso Station in Statesville working there as a young man. Mickey was an officer in the North Carolina Tar Heel Classic T-Bird Club in North Carolina and a member of the Classic Thunderbird Club International. Mickey’s powder blue 1957 Ford Thunderbird was a fixture at regional and national car shows where he was a Master Judge.
Mickey will be dearly missed but we all know he loved us, because he told us, every day. And he knew we loved him. What more could a man want on earth than to love and be loved by his family.
Mickey is survived by his wife, Dixie H. Harris, of Wilson; sisters, Kay Miller and husband, Sonny, of Salisbury and Andy Rimmer of Statesville; daughter, Anne H. Lloyd and husband, Steve, of Morrisville; son, Brett Harris and wife, Susan, of Wilson; son, Keith Whitaker, his wife, Lisa, of Oak Island; grandchildren, Blair Myers, her husband, Jason, and their sons, Harrison and Anderson of Wilson, Taylor Southerland and wife, Jadis, of Smyrna, GA, Mack Lloyd, wife, Sarah, and their children, Evan and Ella of Cary, Maggie Southerland of Charlotte, Drew Lloyd and Kayla Niedziejko of Boston, MA, Kali Murphy and husband, Patrick, of Raleigh and Chelsea Baskin and husband, William, of Clemmons.
A memorial service will be held in the Spring of 2022 at Bethel Lutheran Church.
In lieu of flowers the family requests contributions to the Junior and Senior Youth Programs at Bethel Lutheran Church, 5759 Bolick Rd., Claremont, NC 27610.